I’m the shoulder you can cry on and the hand that smacks that ass
*shows up at ur door 10 years after we had an argument* aND ANOTHER THING
Be with someone who motivates you to be a better person, understands your pace and helps you improve it, respects your good ambitions, helps you unlearn dangerous patterns and habits. Someone who you love but don’t centralize. It is so important to understand the difference between loving someone with all your heart (which is beautiful) and removing your own core by replacing it with them (which is not love but extreme dependency).
it is actually really sweet when someone stays up late to talk to you